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On May 16, 2010 our congregation commissioned four new Stephen Ministers. The group completed a 20-week training class consisting of over 50 hours of training. Our church has now trained and commissioned 16 Stephen Ministers for service to St Paul's and our community. Currently, seven of the Stephens are active in the program. Please go to the following PBS link to view a 7 minute video which provides an overview of the training and the ministry of Stephn Ministries within a local congregation: View the Stephen Ministry feature on the PBS Web site,
Below are the "Top Ten Reasons why YOU should become a Stephen Minister". Please review these reasons and prayerfully consider becoming a part of St Paul's Stephen Ministry Team. For more information, contact Ray Cardaronella, 592-5321,
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today. Visit Stephen Ministries today to learn more. Top Ten Reasons Why YOU Should Become a Stephen Minister:Reason #10: You will learn to turn danger into opportunity
The Chinese word for crisis is made from a combination of two other characters: danger and opportunity. Every crisis, whether it is a divorce, the loss of a spouse, sudden unemployment or even a much-desired pregnancy provides both an opportunity for growth as well as a danger of choosing destructive solutions. The care of a dedicated, trained, Christ-centered Stephen Minister can help a person in crisis find equilibrium and wholeness. Reason #9: Stephen Ministers are skilled caregivers
Stephen Ministers receive 50 hours of training before they are commissioned and assigned to care receivers. They learn skills such as listening, identifying and expressing feelings, setting boundaries, and being assertive. They also learn about specific challenges such as hospitalization divorce, grief, and depression. Stephen Ministers feel well prepared to walk alongside people in crisis, whether it is with an assigned care receiver, or in their own relationships with family, friends and coworkers. Reason #8: Stephen Ministers experience the joy of fellowship with one another
Stephen Ministers meet about an hour a week with their care-receivers, but they also meet twice a month in small groups with other Stephen Ministers. Here, in a confidential manner, they share the joys and challenges of their caring relationships, pray for one another, offer encouragement and practical help, and relate to one another in a deep and spiritual way. The bonds of friendship and commitment are strong and positive. Reason #7: Stephen Ministers learn to listen
Most people think of listening as a simple, natural, and passive activity, but it is actually a powerful caregiving tool. Using Jesus as our model, Stephen Ministers learn the skill of active listening, which involves commitment, patience, and attention to body language. Stephen Ministers learn to listen for more than just words. They seek true understanding and empathy. Reason #6: Stephen Ministers are assertive caregivers
Stephen Ministers are trained to "speak the truth in love." Christian assertiveness is a positive and constructive way of relating that respects others and ourselves. Stephen Ministers learn to recognize and avoid aggressive behaviors such as belittling and manipulation, and to avoid passive behaviors such as withdrawing and relinquishing rights. By learning to behave assertively, Stephen Ministers become more aware of God's will for their lives and more aware of the needs of others. Reason #5: Stephen Ministers are caregivers, not curegivers
Stephen Ministers are not therapists or problem solvers; they are caregivers. Only God can bring about healing, forgiveness, and hope. Stephen Ministers are trained to listen and pray, to be reliable and non-judgmental, and to help care receivers express their feelings. Focusing on caring and not on curing means Stephen Ministers never pressure a care receiver to "get better." Stephen Ministers are there for as long as the process takes, and trust that God works in His own time to provide wholeness. Reason #4: Stephen Ministers feel needed (because they are!)
Stephen Ministry was created by a minister named Kenneth Haugk who realized that there are not enough pastors available to provide patient, long-term care to people in crisis. By training lay ministers in his congregation, he was able to ensure that the newly widowed, those going through divorce, people with chronic or terminal illness, and many, many others were able to meet regularly with a compassionate listener. Stephen Ministry benefits our pastors, our congregation, and our community. Reason #3: Stephen Ministry skills apply in other relationships
Stephen Ministers are trained to listen, to recognize, accept and express feelings, to behave assertively, and to depend on God for healing and change. They often find themselves using these skills in dealing with spouses, children, coworkers, clients, and in-laws. Imagine how a work place could be transformed by a single person who has learned to listen without judgment! Reason #2: Stephen Ministry is a life changing experience
Have you ever avoided approaching a person who was hurting because you "didn't know what to say?" We all have. But Stephen Ministers know what to say and how to act. They are trained to respond compassionately and respectfully when others need them, and they feel confident in their caregiving skills. Stephen Ministers are the first to respond when neighbors, family members, and coworkers need someone to talk to. Reason #1: Jesus commanded it
"My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you." We are called to "bear one another's burdens," and to "accept one another." Jesus wanted us to be doers of the Word, not just hearers. Stephen Ministers are in the trenches every day, caring for those who are hurting, bringing warmth and kindness to those who feel alone, creating an atmosphere where trust and respect can lead to wholeness. Stephen Ministers answer the call of Jesus. We are all called to care! Stephen Ministry classes start September 2009. Contact the church office or Ray Cardaronella, 592-5321 or
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